Months into their online courtship, Khalil traveled to Morocco, met Mitat’s family, and proposed marriage — even going so far as to show the family his bank statements to prove he could support her. The only oddity, perhaps, was his demand that she swap her jeans and T-shirts for long baggy dresses.Shortly into the marriage, Khalil called Mitat from Dubai with news that he had found work in Turkey, and that he wanted her to go on a holiday there with him — and that he had a “surprise” for her once they arrived.Marriage is all about harmony – God wants his creation to live in harmony.You don’t want to live with someone with conflicts throughout the day.So Khalil flew them to Gaziantep, a Turkish city on the border of Syria, where they stayed in a house in which the men stayed in one room, and women and children stayed in the other.
There is an advisement to marry with whom you are compatible, and whom you can live in harmony with.
It is a relational guidance that a believing bondsman is better than a non-believing man and vice-versa for men.
The comparison is for one to understand that the social status is not important, but harmony is.
Muslims are no exception either and there is no need to beat up on Islam for a deficiency in comprehension.
This paper explores on possible causes for the Yes or No response, and what happens if that cause is not there anymore.