Please read my responses to other women with similar questions, and move forward with your own life.After reading all of these stories about a male mid life crisis I realize that my husband of 23 years is going through this. I have learned that the men most at risk for midlife crisis are those with chaotic or traumatic childhood pain that has never been dealt with. My husband of 21 years, 3 teenage daughters, as 2 head off to college, he decides to cut & run.The couple never married but have two sons together.Interviewed on Radio 4's Desert island Discs, Robbins said his midlife crisis happened during the "insanity" which followed the collapse of his film project."I asked myself the question, "What is it that will make you happy?
Regardless of your past, and truly see everything ... it is filled with all sorts of new experiences (some good, some frustrating). We (your fellow midlife brothers) are here to help.he has my cell phone blocked and my apt phone open to call,that makes no sense?he says he is done with everybody and everything and nobody is doing anything to him? when I last spoke with him i told him I would like to reconcile and have you come home. find a friend, get a life, very Irritable, Angry, at nobody? Do men ever come out of a mid-life crisis and how long does it take?Noel's response Yes, men come out of a midlife crisis.It's when you pass 40, inherently we double our age when we think about life. You start thinking about how many years you've got left, and you start thinking, 'What the hell am I doing here?'" Robbins said that the experience encouraged him to write an album of songs which he is set to release later this year.This has been a very shocking and painful experience for me and my children and my friends and family. He has been binge dating 25-28 year olds (he's 49), taking them on very expensive trips, drinking and drugging like he is reliving his frat days in college.It has been 8 months since he told me he was no longer in love with me and that he had contempt in his heart toward me for an affair I had 17 years prior that he had originally forgiven for. That's all because I know there is not a damn thing I can do to make him love me or come back besides pray. I realize that this is a journey that he must make alone, that there is nothing at all, that I can do to speed up his awakening, yet I find myself so confused at what to do.In fact, you might have a really good Friday when the movie does very well, so you better go out Friday and Saturday nights, because by Monday, you're yesterday's news." Robbins's choice of music for his desert island included Let's Get it On by Marvin Gaye, Sinnerman by Nina Simone and In Your Mind by Johnny Cash.His luxury was a surfboard and his chosen book was a book of matches.