If you don’t understand some social nuance, being open about it can be disarming.
You may want to disclose your Asperger Syndrome, but even if you don’t, you can always explain that you just don’t get something and ask for help figuring it out.
Having successful friendships can set the groundwork for successful dating later on.
If you can’t have a friendship, how can you expect to have an intimate relationship with someone?
Dan Coulter of Coulter Video is an adult with Asperger Syndrome.
It’s much better to say, “Would you like to go to (insert movie, concert or other event) on Friday night? If she says she is busy and suggests another night, you’re in.
If she says she’s busy and doesn’t offer an alternative, it’s best to back off.
If you wish, you can then wait a few days and ask her out again to a different event.
If she doesn’t accept your second offer and doesn’t suggest an alternative, she’s probably not interested.